Getting advice in the cards

I am totally biased when I read my tarot cards on the computer. They seem to be consistent with my current problems/issues and I enjoy doing it but they can also be pretty vague and open to interpretation. This is where I start to have a problem.

I received a free 11 card Celtic cross reading because it was my birthday and then decided to buy a love cross reading because why not! The first reading was pretty straight forward, it talked about how I recently went through a rocky road with a friend and that I have a 50/50 shot at repairing it if I want. That I need to rely on past experiences to grow and that I will soon work things out with where my place is in the world.

The second reading is not so generalized and focuses on my romantic relationships...or in my case, the lack of them. The problem is that although it was also pretty accurate of the situation I don't know how to read it.

The first card, the Love & Me one, was the 2 of swords which means
When you are conflicted with a possible partner, spend some time gathering information before taking action.The card in the Love & Me position touches on an aspect of how you perceive yourself with regard to possible intimacy in your life.With the Two of Swords in this position, indecision prevails, and there are no obvious clues to help you decide which relationship choices to make. Opposing forces seem to pull you apart. When this happens, the left brain is arguing with the right, and reason is in conflict with the heart. Although this is a difficult and painful position, timeless wisdom says to follow your heart. Resist trying to judge the situation in precise, rigid terms. Continue to gather clues, be receptive to new information, but choose with your heart. This time of confusion may turn out to be a fertile period for you. Do not squander your energy on premature action

So first off it says flat out that I'm stuck in indecision and that there are no obvious answers, thanks a lot! Second I can't determine if I should read it like its referring to potential new relationships that I have yet to pursue or met, that I should look into pursuing them or if I take the advice as if its referring to him. I just feel that when I get readings like this they are tell me that a potentially relationship could happen between us in the future and that I should stick with it. Especially with further cards like:

the Love Advice one where I drew the Queen of Swords - Trust your own decisions. Exercise as much independence as you know you can handle right now.The card in the Love Advice position suggests a course of action which will harmonize what you want with what is currently possible.The Queen of Swords in this position advises that you avoid being dependent on others at this time. Instead of investing a lot of hope in promises that may have been made -- even by people close to you -- focus only on those ambitions and coming relationship desires that you can accomplish yourself. This Queen doesn't want to wait and see what others think, say, or do. She knows what she wants, and she knows how to get it. Neither does she ask permission nor subject herself to too much influence. There are times in life when no one can take care of you as well as you can. Leave sentimentality behind and take action. Make important decisions for yourself, because you are the one who will have to live with the consequences. - Does this mean I should just grow some balls and say wtf? Why can't we be in a relationship? I don't think I could do that...its so unlikely that I would get even close to the response I want and then what do you do? Not to mention I'm not really sure I want what I think I want. What happens if I got a relationship and then it didn't work. I lost interest or realized its a mistake...uncertainty abound. Way safer to just let things lie.

My long term potential card pulled the Fool and read Your next relationship is unpredictable, though the likelihood exists for something good to happen. Great, just great! So what does that mean. Should I do something about it or continue to go with the flow!!!?

See this is why I would prefer to go in person to have Cynthia do my reading because then you can ask advice from an unbiased third party. Granted the downfall is that I might not like what she has to say. Ugh, I make everything into such drama.